Our African Stories...

 We tell our story in creative lines

sometimes with straight or curvy rhymes.

We excel in every climb

Africa is the best from the start of time.

Our African stories is uniquely written with stripes of service, strength and sovereignty. 

Touching lives around seven seas.

Our thoughts come alive with breath of boldness 

and we become more with commonsense.

Listen to the head lines:

these lines of how we became the head

how we damned consequences and moved ahead;

breaking bounds, reviving lives

mounting mountains and thrives. 

See the hand writings:

writings of confidence birth by our hands

with Arts

autograph ever green as Crafts.

Solutionist Clementina

©July, 2021 

CHILDREN'S WORLD

Hi!
It's been a long time we had heart to heart talk........I miss you all. It is the season set aside for the celebration of children; children's day celebration is in the air. Today's broadcast promises to be entertaining an educating too.

"Children are the heritage of the Lord and the fruits of the womb is its reward." With this knowledge, adults should know that they have been made Care givers/ takers of this children so they must endeavour to play their part; fully convinced that "Every child is your child."

I will be sharing with us pratical ways of helping a child. These are technique used by me, learnt from my Hero - De Prince Owochowan Akache and the children at Sir Austine Group of Schools, Lagos, Nigeria.

Here they are:
The Cs

1. CRADLE: "The hand that cradles the ward, rules the world." In doing this, you indirectly gives the child confidence in you and himself to do exploits.

2. CORRECT: Never forsake the use of the rod of correction, for in them lies the power to drive off ill manners. In an attempt to correct the wrong doing of the child do it not with a heavy heart but from a heart that love the child as this goes a long way to build love in the heart of the child.
Remember, "When you beat him/her with the right hand, pull him/her closer with the left hand" thus, says an African proverb.

3. CONCERNTRATE: As a parent/ guardian, don't place your job, ambition, vision, business before the need of your children, they are not yours remember, they are given to you by your God to care for. It is very dangerous. Some of such children end up the opposite of their original dream/ self. Give them all the neccessary information, love, vare, attention, affection they need at every phase of their life, failure to do this will attract the opposite of thier dresms.

4. COMMUNE: Spend quality time interceding for your children before your God. Remember, "The spiritual governs the physical." when the need arises, it paves the way for them.

Conclusively, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he won't depart from it." This day, place before you are two routes of choice, life or death, but i urge you to choose life .

I will write to you soon.
Till then, keep on the good as you train that child you have been given in the right way.
bye!

NOVEMBER 14TH

November 14^th 2015 a date I will never forget. I had a training program with some students on beads in Ajegunle area, Lagos, Nigeria. I also signed a date with my wonderful friends to do a poem with the theme ‘Redefinition’ somewhere around Ikeja, Opebi precisely. I met with my students for few minutes before going to Ikeja for the performance which i could not because I arrived late *sobs* I am very sorry friends it was not my doing.

But, why won’t I forget this date? This was the same day I met the wonderful faces behind the wisdom I get when I go online via whats app through a group called ‘Maxi Net ‘and ‘The Refined Babes Network’ created by one of my mentors, Mr. Matthew Femi Adedoyin.

This is the same day I got new information on ‘SEX’, though restructured I still want to share it with you because you are so dear to me.

v  Sex might be ‘Fun’ but in the wrong environment, it is not FUNNY at all.

v  Sex might be one of God’s commands to mankind, but, it is definitely not the MOST important thing in life to do.

v  Checking through obituaries, there is no record of any who died for not having sex.

NB: This is to the teens and singles.

v  Let the bed remain undefiled till you have before dignitaries been pronounced MAN and WIFE after you must have sealed your commitment with ‘I DO’.

v  Having sexual intercourse with a person you are not legally married to and trying to break up with him/her can be liken to trying to separate glued papers; just like the papers will not be successfully separated so also will the break up leave behind scars in the heart.

Friends! Remember, this is not to condemn any but to share with you that “It pays to wait for YOUR OWN TIME i.e. in the marriage environment before engaging in any form sexual act with your spouse – the opposite sex”. However, if you have been in that situation we sometimes call ‘heartbreak’, don’t stay down there. “Come forth from that well and let’s EXCEL!” – (extracted from my poem ‘SEXANITY’).

I God YOU!

#I Love You.

WORDS

Ask the creator of the universe

You would know words can't be reverse.

Ask the child whose throat was cut

Who would only watch others cot.

Ask the girl child whose pride was stolen.

The lawyer who won the case

The young man serving jail term

The marketer that just got promoted

Ask the highest paid and profiting brand.

Ask them all and you will see

Words can calm the stormy sea

Heal ill heart

And coin as art.

Words can burn

Words can turn.

Words are eggs; so be wise

Words can tweak you also to rise.

Words can take you to the highest

So, before you cast out make sure you lick

WORDS.

I GOD YOU!

WHERE WERE YOU?

WHERE WERE YOU?

When I became native of no land

In my fatherland.

When the night turns day

And the day says ‘no way’

With whips of affliction on us stay

While feet swings astray.

Lost in sight as we run the race

With our hopes held in outer space

And great pain in the marrow

In the darkest of night, “what holds the morrow?”

Where were you?

When all that could refresh the soul was songs of sorrow

Sweet dreams of misery

And dance steps of suffering

To the tune, ‘poverty’.

Where were you?

When dreams only comes as we gaze high

Fixed eyes to the cloudless sky

With nakedness covered in thought

And my palace; the dirtiest hut

With an ‘open heaven’

For us all – eleven

Where were you?

Just when the blue sky turns grey

Ears will be filled with ‘HEY!’

Fear gripping

For ‘open heaven’ dripping

“Oh Lord! Let it not rain”

And when it does, all in vain

Buckets – filled

Inn?  Another pacific

Laying in turns

Bailing the sea while the eyes burns

Where were you?

When my rope

Is that of hope

Still, filled with joy

Without a toy

In battle with self

To fly above the present shelf

With weapons of mouth

Pulling down great mount

Where were you?

When decisions was all I need

And self-determination was all I had

In spite of pleasures I held my peace

For treasures to get at ease

Where were you?

This is a life tale written in poetic form. this is written to glorify God, though not where God has destined but not where i use to be - I HAVE MOVE FORWARD STILL MOVING TO THE PEAK. 

JOIN ME @ THE TOP!

MEN, SEX AND VIRGINITY

A lot has been said about men, sex and virginity. often times when the word virginity is uttered people think it applies to the female alone so they neglect the topic to be discussed.Hence, they give excuses on most customs and traditions in africa that demands the blood of virgins - female for ritual or land cleansing. Today's broadcast will break some myths about virginity that some men see as fact, but first we must unveil the keywords -Men, Sex and Virginity.

MEN: Adult human male.
SEX: According to my mentor Mr Praise Oladimeji Fowowe "Sex is a covenant exchange of love, life and pleasure between the man and the woman in the marriage environment for the purpose of unity, procreation and the expression of marital love".
VIRGINITY: The state of being a virgin - one is has never engage in any form of sexual activities. With this definition of virginity it means to us that gay and lesbians are no virgins.

Having established that, we would now talk about some myth about virginity.
MYTHS ABOUT VIRGINITY

• "Virginity is of ancient times" : we must have heard people say this with no remorse when the topic is mentioned for discussion. let me take time out to ask you to think about this statement 'after engaging in  illicit sex as singles on the wedding day couples will want to be alone otherwise called 'HONEYMOON', tell me what exactly will be the honey in the moon? If the man has been a free giver of his sperm in time past or maybe in present without the notice of the bride.
• "Virginity deprives us from knowing if we are sexually compatible":: Being a friend to all by virtue of my temperament, i listen to whatever demands my attention and i have heard guys say this word for word. Friends! Let me tell you that there is more to having a successful marriage than just testing women. NB: A virgin - male or female that just engage in any form of sexual activity few minutes before saying 'I DO' is no longer a virgin believe it or not. As told by my father, mentor, and teacher Mr praise and being convinced myself that "quality products don't need to be tested because they come with warranty". In marriage, sex is 100% right but outside the wed web it's wrong. I know some guys reading this won't be happy and some would also want to ask " what if when we get married and we are having problems sexually what do we do? to answer that you first check yourselves if there be any problem and if all is well you both should seek the face of God and help where you will find it examples are family life counselors to tell you what to do.

Having said that, i am so convinced that although there's nothing like the hymen in the system of the male species to indicate the state of virginity but there are other signs that can tell if it. this will be in the next edition friends. i write not to condemn anyone but to let all know so as not to perish in ignorance.

THIS PIECE OF MINE.

Every new dawn is to us a car
one of which we are either made or mar
still to us the end seem far
and why we say "nothing dey pa".
This piece of mine 'a prodigal knight'
use this time to set priorities right
seek and apply knowledge which is light
that your days may glitter bright.
Then as feet past life's shore
all in place you will be very sure.

Left to us we need just day
for to us the night won't pay
but while sun last let's make hay
then at night peacefully we will lay
This piece of mine 'your personal scale'
of course to some this is another stale
but why not pause and ask yourself
"depriving my name off life's shelf
what gain is there living a life of self?"
and when out of this terrestrial ball
curse posterity rain for a great fall.
 
We least expect when life says "it's over"
for to us the grave seem farer
this piece of mine, not to make you shiver
cos every tick draws us closer.
Take time out to think and re - think
those thoughts of yours you may also have to ink
travel in thought far and near
some of which you may bear
even some on you rain fear
think of past, present, and future here
all of these; i say please wear.

Life itself is as a line
sometimes rough and sometimes fine
this piece of mine is more than nine
see the signs that the end is nigh.
Take heed! he whose strength is full
lest he fall like a skillful fool
for life at best is very brief
be in time and not in grief.
Live this life as an assest
not necessariliy with your accent
so, live a life worth living
with that life you've been given.

(c) 2015