NOVEMBER 14TH

November 14^th 2015 a date I will never forget. I had a training program with some students on beads in Ajegunle area, Lagos, Nigeria. I also signed a date with my wonderful friends to do a poem with the theme ‘Redefinition’ somewhere around Ikeja, Opebi precisely. I met with my students for few minutes before going to Ikeja for the performance which i could not because I arrived late *sobs* I am very sorry friends it was not my doing.

But, why won’t I forget this date? This was the same day I met the wonderful faces behind the wisdom I get when I go online via whats app through a group called ‘Maxi Net ‘and ‘The Refined Babes Network’ created by one of my mentors, Mr. Matthew Femi Adedoyin.

This is the same day I got new information on ‘SEX’, though restructured I still want to share it with you because you are so dear to me.

v  Sex might be ‘Fun’ but in the wrong environment, it is not FUNNY at all.

v  Sex might be one of God’s commands to mankind, but, it is definitely not the MOST important thing in life to do.

v  Checking through obituaries, there is no record of any who died for not having sex.

NB: This is to the teens and singles.

v  Let the bed remain undefiled till you have before dignitaries been pronounced MAN and WIFE after you must have sealed your commitment with ‘I DO’.

v  Having sexual intercourse with a person you are not legally married to and trying to break up with him/her can be liken to trying to separate glued papers; just like the papers will not be successfully separated so also will the break up leave behind scars in the heart.

Friends! Remember, this is not to condemn any but to share with you that “It pays to wait for YOUR OWN TIME i.e. in the marriage environment before engaging in any form sexual act with your spouse – the opposite sex”. However, if you have been in that situation we sometimes call ‘heartbreak’, don’t stay down there. “Come forth from that well and let’s EXCEL!” – (extracted from my poem ‘SEXANITY’).

I God YOU!

#I Love You.