Hello viewers! You are welcome to today's broadcast . today promises to be very educating, entertaining and enlighthening as we discuss MUMMY BOY OR A MAN?
"Men are classified by the works of their heart shown to us by the works of their hands" - Solutionist.
this is not to condemn anyone but to right wrongs as off old that we have been told. let's start by unveiling the keywords in our topic.
- BOY: The early stage of a man in other words he's the growing man between age 4-17.
- MAN: The adult human male as define by the concise English dictionary.
Having establish that lets now talk about the mummy boy. He's the man who still possess the boyish character like being dependable. He has got no say, belief system or value of his own as a boy it can be overlooked but as a man he will have to put away some 'boyish' traits. He'll have to learn to be mature and accept responsibility like St. Paul in 1 cor. 13: 11 " When i was a child i spake as a child, understood as a child and spake as a child but when i became a man i put away childish things". Being dependable makes him bound; not able to make decisions on his own that concerns his life. Ain't saying it's bad to let parents know when and how you grow in life as a man but there should be a limit to how parents make certain decision that concerns your life when you become a man be THE MAN. I've heard and seen people who'll never make a decision without letting mama know what they want to do and contribute to it. This people in a relationship mama determine when and where they take their fiancee to for shopping, trainings, seminars, out door recreational events and when they fail to meet up with the engagement they utter words like " mummy is not in support of it". Then, in marriage mama determines how misunderstanding is settled in their home. in this case i am a strong believer of the word "Therefore shall a man LEAVE his household and CLEAVE to his wife and they shall become one flesh".
NB: Leave and Cleave sounds like LIVE which means they'll both live together fulfilling God's purpose for their lives. The difference between both spellings is letter C meaning they are to be committed to themselves and their marriage vows. The knowledge of this makes it easy to let mama know her limit in interfering in the relationship of the man and let God be the judge except he be not the author of it.
Men who still allows mama make the final say in their lives have either of these two in their relationship separation/ divorce. Like i earlier said, i write not to condemn anyone but to right wrongs as of old that we have been told.
WAY OUT:
- Seek knowledge: The knowledge of a thing brings about proper use of it and without knowledge my people perish. Growing men and adult should seek knowledge in divers area from etiquette and social polish. Having in mind that there are things that meets a boy that are acceptable in the slight of all but when seen in the man it will be considered as irresponsible. Seeking knowledge also involves vocational skills acquisition and entrepreneurial skills which is meeting people's needs that will eventually yield money as value. As a man, when parents can ask and they are given you directly or indirectly break free from the chains of 'final say' from mama end and any other who does wants to control the affairs of your life on important issues.
Beloved! So sad to stop here today but i promise to write to you soon. Leaving you in peace is your regular host Solutionist till we meet next time on this platform keep preparing for a successful home
BYE!.
